Shraddha:
House wife shobdotae amar tibro apotti. ami mone kori nari taar sangsarti nijer hathe gore tolen. ekta barike ghor kore tolar pichhone purusher thekeo anek beshi dayittwo thake sei ghorer ghoronir. tar karon bodhhoe meyera aj'o purushder theke anek beshi sohonshil, anek beshi adjust korte pare tara.
tobuo bhul ki amader hoe na; kintu tobu kibhabe jhor jhapta, bipod apoder kobol theke nijeder kalyani hather sporsho diye dheke rakhte pari nijer sangsar.. tar'i kichhu tips ( amar mone hoe jeta ei comm'r obhiggwo memberra khub bhaloi janen) nobo-bibahitader di, tahole mondo hoe na. Infact amra jara bohu bochhor dhore sangsar korchhi tarao jene nite pari kibhabe hoye uthbo ekjon bhalo homemaker.
Tomar mote ki shei 5 ti gun ja ekjon bhalo home maker'r thaka uchit?
Sayonee:
5 ti gun ek Grihobodhu ba Home-Maker er:
Amaar sobe ek bochhor biye hoyechhe kintu amaar boyesh praaye 30 tai ei gun gulo shudhu matro nijer biye theke na but aaro onnyo experience theke bolchhi. Hope everyone will agree, jara already onek bochhor sangsar korchho:
1) Nijer sangsar chhara dui poribar er modhhye balance
Amaar mot e biye shudhu du jon er na dui poribaar er mel bandhon, tai jotoi mono-malinota thaak dui poribaar ke dhore rakhhar dayitwo ta ekta chheler theke onek-onek gun beshi ekta meyer, tai ekta BB'r dayitwo holo sei link ta ke rakha ebong ota ke aaro strong kora, nato nijer family (bor-bou-bachha) te kono din o strong bond thakbe na.
2) Patience
Eta ekta sob theke important gun jeta amader e rakhtey hoye, karon chhele ra in general khub impulsive hoye, tai sanghatik patience na thakle baritey maan-abhimaan chhara o serious situations hotey baddho. Prochondo matha thanda rakhtey hoy ebong temper lose korle, situation will worsen more.
3) Good Listener
Etar onek implication aachhey. Bor, bachha, sasur, sasuri, ma aar baba der kotha bhalo shona uchit, karon era onek somoy just ekta companion chaye je oder sob kotha shunug. E chhara etaar erakta implication holo je good listener hole tomra opriyo kotha gulo ke filter kore feltey paaro , jemon kichhu titkiri ba relatives der opriyo kotha-barta (eta just ekta tip ).
4) Good Friend/Companion
Eta shudhu bor er khetrei na, but also for ur children, parents and siblings. Ekta bhalo bandhu howa ta aage dorkaar before playing the roles of a wife, mother, daughter or sister.
5) Love and Affection
Eta chhara to ek pa o egono jaabe na...ki bolo ! Aar eta'r kono explanation o bodhoy karur laagbe na .
Debarati:
sayoneer point gulo charao aro 2 to point er kotha ami bolbo.
1. somoyer songe nijeke change kore nebar manosikota
2. kichu klichu point e nijer sidhdhante sthir thaka .
Sayantani:
sayonee khub guchiye likhecho......debaratir point duto o khub important.....aami shudhu ekta jinish eder saathe add korte chai......
Kheyal Rakha
barir protyekta jinish opor jotokhani sambhob kheyal rakha....kon jinishta kom aache aante hobe,ba extra aache ekhon laagbena.......kon jinishta needs immediate cleaning.....erokom...
e to gelo jinisher kothaa....tacharao barir manushder kheyal rakha khub important......tader choto choto pochondo opochondo......tader jonmodin/anniversary celebrate kora.....dure thakle cards/gift pathano......khub choto choto byapar..kimba just ekta phone....kintu khub important.....relationship bhalo rakhar jonno.....
Sudipta:
good listener
Good dcecision maker
good manager
Good carer
Good interpersonal skill
Good cook
Home maker er sab i thaka chai ..
Shraddha:
1.. mene ,manie neoa.
ta bole ki sob opochhonder jinish mene nebo?
Ta noe, jeta bhul bole mone hobe seta oboshyoi barir ar memberder bolte hobe, bojhabar cheshta korte hobe.
2. sangsarer protiti khuNtinatite jeno home maker'r jotner chhap thake.
diner sheshe gorom alubhaja, dal, bhaat'o jodi barir lokeder dao.. jeno sei debar modhhye ekta shree thake.
3. nijeke jotno kora.
nijeke sajiye rakho, jotne rakho, bhalo rakho. dekhbe taar protifolon tomar sangsarer ar 5 joner opore porbe.
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