Tina
Otite amar posha jibjontu bolte chhilo shudhu beral. tader katha bhabte boshle anek mishti anonder smriti jemon mone ashe temon anek kosto-o mone ashe jemon ek jayga theke onno jaygay chole jaoar somoy tader chhere chole jaoa ba tader keu ei duniya chhere gelo jakhon mrityuke khub kachh theke dekha ebong priojonke haranor shunnotar onubhuti.....
bartoman jibone amar chhele aar tar baba dujonei khub kukur-bhokto. aar ami kukur-ke khub bhoy pai . beral amar darun pochhondo aar amar husband ektuo beral bhalobashena. chhele jibjontu khub bhalobashe, tader samne pelei gaye hat buliye ador korar ekta probonota achhe. tar prothom posha prani hoyechhilo dujon kochchop. tara ashole amader pasher barite ekta chhele achhe tar. ekdin tara chole eshechhilo amader bagan-e. amar chhele dekhte peye ekta lomba ghash diye sursuri dite laglo aar tara omni mukh dhukiye felchhilo tader basay. sei theke roye giyechhilo. pasher barir chheleta sanonde diye diyechhilo oder. tarpor ekdin shokale uthe tader aar khuje paini....barir pechone jangole chole giyechhilo kina ke jane!!
apatato chheler tinte official posha prani hoyechhe. tara machh....hawaiian shrimp...lal ronger chhotto chingri machh. baro pathor aar nokol gachhpalar arale lukiye thake aar majhe majhe bar hoy. chhele aar ami dujonei tader ei lukochuri khela khub upobhog kori. apatato chhele aar tar baba-r sathe amar kathopokhon cholchhe....thik hoyechhe kukur ana hobe o aro ektu baro hole kintu poodle gochher chhoto size er kukur.
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JOINT FAMILY NUCLEAR FAMILY
JOINT FAMILY : Khub shundar ekta concept, jekhane ek chaader tolai shobai thaake.....kaaj mile mishe kore.... je jei kaajta bhalobashe seta korte paare…… sukh dukhkho share kore……..khaali shomoy golpo gujab(maane pnpc )kore.......ekakitye keu bhoge na......... proyojone bipode apode shobai shobai ke sahajyo kore sabche important shobar modhye thaakle bachcharao onek shundar bhaabe manush hoi....mishte oshubidhe hoi na oder....dushtu hoi kintu jedi, comparatively kom hoi…
Kintu ei shob shundor thaake jodi samporkota shundor hoi.........aar samporko sundar hoi jodi financial standard ek hoi.....choto boro shab byapare eta chokhe pore....bhalobasha thaakleo ei difference in standard hole joint family te mushkil hoi...aamaar (ekhane "aami" shudhui ekta example) deorer chele daami daami jama kapor pore aami aamaar chele ke dite paarchina .....ete dui pokkheri ekta complex hoi....bachchadero hoi......kintu jodi standard ek hoi either aami kine debo aar jodi na kine di bhabbo je etaa aamaar principle tai dichchi na kintu ichche korlei paarbo.....seta opor pokkho o bujhbe...........seta shob khetrei hoi......jotoi bolo supta competetion thaake............
NUCLEAR FAMILY: Chotto shundar poribar....ekhane biye kore ashaar por nutun bouti taar onek sapnoi puran korte paare............adjust shudhui husband ba soshur shashurir shonge.....se taar nijer sangsar nijer moton samlaate paare; sajate paare....bachchake nijer moton kore boro korte paare....
kintu Shob kaaj nijeke korte hoi…sharir kharap holeo rokkhe nei….ekakityo hoye othe ekmatro shongi………tai bodhhoi bole independence comes with a lot of responsibilities
Jhum (Suchismita Das)
Baishakhir 'Purba-Purush' thread ta dekhe kichu lekhar lobh samlate parlam na. Du-din dhorei kichu likhbo vabchi. kintu thik somoi hoe uthchena. sotti 1ta bepar holo nijeder purbo-purushder nie amader protteker monei bodhoi kichu koutuhol thake. amader purbo-purush kara chilen tara ki korten kivabe jibonjapon korten se bepare janbar icche ta bodhoi sokoler moddhei olpo bistor theke thake. sadharonoto amader thakuma didima othoba dadurai hon amader purbo-purushder somporke janbar setusorup. tader kach thekei jante pari amra amader purbo-purush der kotha. amio amar purbo-purushder somporke kichu kichu golpo amar thakumar thekei sunechi.
amar thakumar baba holen prokhyato sisu sahityik shri Hemendra Kumar Ray. bingso shotoker prothom dike tar rochito sisu sahityo jothesto aloron sristi korechilo. bolte gele tini prothom bangla sahitye detective golper suchona koren. tar rochito *Jayanta* *Manik* namok Goyenda choritro ajo manus ke porte utsahito kore. tini sudhu je goyenda kahinitei parodorshi chilen tai noi. tar rochonar moddhe onek adventurous ebong science fiction o roeche. tar rochito *"Jokher Dhon"* jothesto jonopriyota labh koreche. ekhono ei boiti chele meyera porte valobase. onar aro kichu mone rakhar moto boier moddhe *Mayakanon*, *Hotyar Hahakare*, *Derso Khokar Kando* ityadi bes ullekhjogya.
Thakumar kache golpo sunechi je onader barite kaji Najrul Islam, Jamini Roy, Uday Shankar provriti onek sonamdhonno manuser asa jawa chilo. jamini roy er onek akao dadur barite dekhechi. kolkata Bagbajare Hemendra Kumar Ray er bariti amar khubi pochonder chilo. bagbazar thik launch ghater kachei dadur 3 tola bari. 3 tolar baranda theke darie gangar buke launch er asa jawa dekhar ek opurbo sundor onubhuti ja bornona kora bes kothin. thakumar kache golpo sunechi oi tin tolar chade bose ganga dekhte dekhtei naki hemndra kumar ray tar lekhar kaj korten. sei barite gelei amar khubi romanchokor lagto ei vebe je eikhane bose ekjon sahityik tar onek sristi korechen.
Ebare asi amar nijer dadur(thakur da) kothai. amar dadu mane amar babar baba. dadur nam holo Deb Kumar Sen. amar daduke jodio ami chokhe dekhini tini amar jonmer agei mara gechen. thakumar kache dadur onek golpo sunechi. amar dadura thakten bortoman Jharkhand er Hajaribagh jelai. amar dadu chilen ekjon school sikkhok. amar dadu je sudhu schoole sikkhokotai korten ta noi. onek nishobdo biplobi kormo kander songeo dadu jukto chilen. jai prakash narain ke jail theke british der hath theke palate dadu porokkho vabe sahajjo korechilen. kivabe tini sahajjo korechilen tar golpo ami thakumar kache sunechilam. ami sei golpo ta bolchina. amar boro pisi *Maitreyi Chatterjee, The* *Statesman* songbadpotre sei golpoti likhechen ami sei link ta tomader sathe share korchi. somoi pele ektu pore dekhte paro.
http://www.thestatesman.net/page.arcview.php?date=2007-12-25&usrsess=...
amar vabte romancho lage je amar dhomonite samanno holeo ei sob purbo-purushder kichu rokto boye choleche. ami gorbito amar purbo-purushder jonne.
