Monday, April 7, 2008

Nuclear family or joint family?


Sayantani.......

JOINT FAMILY NUCLEAR FAMILY

JOINT FAMILY : Khub shundar ekta concept, jekhane ek chaader tolai shobai thaake.....kaaj mile mishe kore.... je jei kaajta bhalobashe seta korte paare…… sukh dukhkho share kore……..khaali shomoy golpo gujab(maane pnpc )kore.......ekakitye keu bhoge na......... proyojone bipode apode shobai shobai ke sahajyo kore sabche important shobar modhye thaakle bachcharao onek shundar bhaabe manush hoi....mishte oshubidhe hoi na oder....dushtu hoi kintu jedi, comparatively kom hoi…

Kintu ei shob shundor thaake jodi samporkota shundor hoi.........aar samporko sundar hoi jodi financial standard ek hoi.....choto boro shab byapare eta chokhe pore....bhalobasha thaakleo ei difference in standard hole joint family te mushkil hoi...aamaar (ekhane "aami" shudhui ekta example) deorer chele daami daami jama kapor pore aami aamaar chele ke dite paarchina .....ete dui pokkheri ekta complex hoi....bachchadero hoi......kintu jodi standard ek hoi either aami kine debo aar jodi na kine di bhabbo je etaa aamaar principle tai dichchi na kintu ichche korlei paarbo.....seta opor pokkho o bujhbe...........seta shob khetrei hoi......jotoi bolo supta competetion thaake............

NUCLEAR FAMILY: Chotto shundar poribar....ekhane biye kore ashaar por nutun bouti taar onek sapnoi puran korte paare............adjust shudhui husband ba soshur shashurir shonge.....se taar nijer sangsar nijer moton samlaate paare; sajate paare....bachchake nijer moton kore boro korte paare....

kintu Shob kaaj nijeke korte hoi…sharir kharap holeo rokkhe nei….ekakityo hoye othe ekmatro shongi………tai bodhhoi bole independence comes with a lot of responsibilities

4 comments:

ICHHADANA said...

Sayantani khub sundor likhechho... :)

Unknown said...

Ami kintu barabor e joint family te theke manush....kothao jeno ekta pran er taan thake joint family te...hoyto anek asubidha anek choto choto maniye neoar madhye diye cholte hoy...tobu o ami joint family tei biye hoye jete chai...

Debarchana said...

ami born and brought up in nuclear family..amar mamabari joint family..khub je ojana joint family concept ta seta noy.....duto r moddhei valo mondo mishiye ache.

Srayashi said...

Khub practical concept.... well done...!!!!