Chotto shona-der jonnyo...ekti alochona

Shraddha: Amader modhhye anek bondhu-i achhen, jara prothombar ma hote cholechhen, kintu bideshe ekla royechhen; mane ma mashi swashurima ashe pashe keu nei je shishur jonmer pore ma o baby-o proyojonio jinishgulo-r jogan deben.Amar shei shob bondhuder jonnyo-i khulchhi ei thread.Amra jara ei shomoyti perie eshechhi o obhiggyo , bishesh kore jara bidesher matitei shantaaner jonmo diyechho, tara jodi shei bondhuder shubidharte ei thread-e shombhabhyo proyojonio jinishpotrer list o kaaje lagbaar moto kichhu tips ekhane post kori, tahole amar mone anek bondhur shubidhe hobe.Shobar shohojogita pabo ei ashae roilam.

MiThai : ami sai list ar apekhai thaklam...tar karon akhon amar ee beshi dorkar tomader sahochorjya r upodesh r bhalobasha.

Shraddha : Kichhu kichhu jinisher naam amar jegulo apatoto mone ashchhe , likhchhi.1. Receiving blanket/ kantha.2. Diapar3. Diaper rash cream4. Dolna5. Norom kichhu jama6. Snan koranor jonnyo gamla7. khub norom towel*8. Chhoto moshari9. Stroller/ parambulator10. Baby basket/ car seat ( eta na hole kintu ora baby-ke hospital thekei chharben na)11. Chhoto crib*12. chhoto toshok, balish, kol-balish13. Khub norom TupiApatoto ei kota mone porchhe. * deoa jinish gulo e deshe proyojon hoe na totota.Pore aro kichhu mone porle nishchoi likhbo.Shei shob bondhuder obhinandan janai, jara khub shiggiri ma hote cholechho.

Suparna : sharaddar list a ami kichu jog korlam14.water proof pad or plastic sheet 15 .baby wipes16.baby wash17 baby powder18.sponge19.hair brush20 .nail cleeper/cutter21.baby thermometer22.socks & mittens23.jodi bottle feed korao to bottles24.sterilizerakhon apatoto ai tuku e mone porlo pore kichu mone hole amar likhbo.jara ma hote cholecho tader sobai ka congratulation .

Mayuri : bhison bhalo lagche tomader eii sohojogita dekhe ... sraddha ebong suparna ke onek dhonyobad ar sraddha amar mone hoi eii bhabe list peye amar beshi subidhe hobe ... aro janar ichche roilo bisesh kore jodi chotto shonar pasha pashi etao bolo je notun mayer ki ki lagbe ...

Devlina : Baby powder ta jeno talcum na hoy. Baby cornstarch powder ta use korle bhalo/Talc. ta'r anek anek problem achhe. Specially meye santan er pokkye.

BidulDD thiki bolechhen, Baby powder to amar doc use kortei baron kore diechhilan, bishes kore amader je dharona achhe je baby r pa, hater bhnaje ektu powder deoa, ota uni bolten ekdom bhul, jodi dite hoi to pith ar peter samotal jaigai alpo powder deben.....

Moushumi: Arekta jinish mone porloBib/burp cloth

Shraddha : Ar anek anek ador (warmth)

Sangeeta : Gata porhu amar boner meye hoyechhe.Ami prtaham bar masi holam.Ami,amra veeshan khusi.....ami or naam diyechhi Jayee,amar baro meye diyechhe Kochi.Ami oke ekhan dekhte jete parchhi na...ishh .

Mother's Day : Rangana

Amar kache Mother's Day bole bishesh kichu nei-karon everyday is a mother's day to me. Ami amar ma er songe manoshik dik diye emon bhabe jorito je ami kokhonoi tNake chara nijer astityo kolponai korte parina.She is my inspiration and source of energy.

Chhotobelay thekei dada aar ami bhison dushtu. Amar Ma working lady chhilen, onek koshto kore amader dui bhai bonke manush korechen. Amar baba chakri shutre onek dure thakten.Tai duto chhoto chhoto chele meyeke manush kora, sansar samlano , chakri kora , sob kichur guru dayitto ma bhison bhalo bhabe palon korechen. She didn't have any helping hand.Ma er kormo khomota irshoniyo. She is a great cook, great singer,daroon shelai koren, bhison bhalo teacher and amar dekha one of the best human beings. Ma er ek kona gun o jodi ami petam, then I would have been on the top of this world. Ei boyosheo t(N)ar energy dekhe obaak hote hoi.

Jokhoni amar mon kharap hoi, ba nijeke manoshik bhaabe durbol mone hoi, amar ma er mukh amar chokher samne bheshe othe. Mone hoi emon maer meye hoye amar durbol howatai bheeruta.

I am what I am today because of my mother and I'm extremely proud and lucky to be her daughter.

Bachchar Jotno : Debarati

Amar meye ektu rogar dike, kintu active and healthy. ami ekhane kichu khub sadharon tips dichchhi jegulo ma hisebe ami nije anubhab korechi:

1. Bachchake Carbohydrate aar protein misiye khete dao.
2. Je jai boluk na keno dudh bacchader jonne best food jodi na daktar dudh khaoyate baron kore thaken. Juicer bodole dudher modhye flavour mishiye dileo kintu shishur bere(body growth) othar jonne khub sasthyokor khabar.
3. Ekjon Ma hisebe tomar jeta mone hobe bachchar upojogee seitao dao.But don't follow other baby's food schedule.
4. Ami dekhechi Tin bochor thekei bachchara nijer taste bujhe jay,tader sei taste anujayee khaote parle kono asubidhe hobena. amar bachcha South Indian khabar khete bhalobashe. ami tai sambarer modhyei sob sobji mishiye di. sokto khabar bolte majhe majhe kichu sobji jemon alu, fulkopy bhaja kore di alpo tel e.
5. Fruits are essential. kintu amio kono friuts khaina, amar meyeo mayer dhara akhkhunno rekheche.Tai ami er poripurok hisebe sei dudher oporei nirbhor kori
6. Khali dekhbe bachcha sob kota meal thik thak khete chaiche kina jodi six times meal dao ( including milk) aar o sob kota meal i or nijer moto kore khachche, tahole chinta korar kono karon nei. Jodi khaoa kome jay, mane lunch khelo kintu dinner khete kichutei chaichena ba breakfast khelo tarpor aar kichchu khete chaichena, dekho bhalo kore or jwor , pet byata ba dNate byetha hoyeche kina.
7. Barite pets thakle sob somoye pets der immunize korbe age.Bachchake shekhabe oder gaye haat dile bhalo kore haat dhuye nite.
8. Kukur kamre dile don't be panicked. bachchar wound poriskar jole dhue antiseptic cream lagiyedao.
9. Khub besi bleeding hole daktar consult koro.
10. Pakhee thakle chesta korbe pakheer khNacha ti roj poriskar korar. bachchader konomotei pakheer thNote haat dite diona. pakheekeo kintu immunize koro. ami dekhechi vitamin drops jaa paoa jay sei sob regular dile kono infections hoy na. amar kache goto du bochor dhore pakhee achhe , even at the time of bird flue also all of them are fine and healthy.
11. Thanda porte suru korlei bachchake gorom poshak porao. kokhkhono mone korona tomar thanda lagchena bole odero thanda lagbena. ami ei bhulta korechilam bolei amar meyer tonsil er problem hoye gechhilo.
12. School-going children hole dekhbe je they are clean enough, jeno oder theke anyo bachchader kono infection naa choray! aabar ultotao hote pare.
13. Ektu jwor jwor bhab dekha dilei asubidhe naa hole sedin ok rest nite dao.
14. Home work or pochondo moto somoye korate thako. aste aste bachchake ekta nirdisto routine er modhye niye jao.
15. Boka boki nischoy korbe kintu, don't pour your frustrations on your baby. amar opor diye ek somoy diba-ratro onek dhokol gechhe. ami amar bachchakei majhe majhe gyan hariye target kore pheltam. she never spoke a single word before she was three. nijer bhul bujhte amar besh kichudin somoy legechilo.
    

Asha kori egulo tomader kaaje lagbe, tomrao kichu janle baa onubhab korle share koro amader sathe.

PUSHYI

Tina

Otite amar posha jibjontu bolte chhilo shudhu beral. tader katha bhabte boshle anek mishti anonder smriti jemon mone ashe temon anek kosto-o mone ashe jemon ek jayga theke onno jaygay chole jaoar somoy tader chhere chole jaoa ba tader keu ei duniya chhere gelo jakhon mrityuke khub kachh theke dekha ebong priojonke haranor shunnotar onubhuti.....

bartoman jibone amar chhele aar tar baba dujonei khub kukur-bhokto. aar ami kukur-ke khub bhoy pai . beral amar darun pochhondo aar amar husband ektuo beral bhalobashena. chhele jibjontu khub bhalobashe, tader samne pelei gaye hat buliye ador korar ekta probonota achhe. tar prothom posha prani hoyechhilo dujon kochchop. tara ashole amader pasher barite ekta chhele achhe tar. ekdin tara chole eshechhilo amader bagan-e. amar chhele dekhte peye ekta lomba ghash diye sursuri dite laglo aar tara omni mukh dhukiye felchhilo tader basay. sei theke roye giyechhilo. pasher barir chheleta sanonde diye diyechhilo oder. tarpor ekdin shokale uthe tader aar khuje paini....barir pechone jangole chole giyechhilo kina ke jane!!

apatato chheler tinte official posha prani hoyechhe. tara machh....hawaiian shrimp...lal ronger chhotto chingri machh. baro pathor aar nokol gachhpalar arale lukiye thake aar majhe majhe bar hoy. chhele aar ami dujonei tader ei lukochuri khela khub upobhog kori. apatato chhele aar tar baba-r sathe amar kathopokhon cholchhe....thik hoyechhe kukur ana hobe o aro ektu baro hole kintu poodle gochher chhoto size er kukur.

Nuclear family or joint family?

Sayantani.......

JOINT FAMILY NUCLEAR FAMILY

JOINT FAMILY : Khub shundar ekta concept, jekhane ek chaader tolai shobai thaake.....kaaj mile mishe kore.... je jei kaajta bhalobashe seta korte paare…… sukh dukhkho share kore……..khaali shomoy golpo gujab(maane pnpc )kore.......ekakitye keu bhoge na......... proyojone bipode apode shobai shobai ke sahajyo kore sabche important shobar modhye thaakle bachcharao onek shundar bhaabe manush hoi....mishte oshubidhe hoi na oder....dushtu hoi kintu jedi, comparatively kom hoi…

Kintu ei shob shundor thaake jodi samporkota shundor hoi.........aar samporko sundar hoi jodi financial standard ek hoi.....choto boro shab byapare eta chokhe pore....bhalobasha thaakleo ei difference in standard hole joint family te mushkil hoi...aamaar (ekhane "aami" shudhui ekta example) deorer chele daami daami jama kapor pore aami aamaar chele ke dite paarchina .....ete dui pokkheri ekta complex hoi....bachchadero hoi......kintu jodi standard ek hoi either aami kine debo aar jodi na kine di bhabbo je etaa aamaar principle tai dichchi na kintu ichche korlei paarbo.....seta opor pokkho o bujhbe...........seta shob khetrei hoi......jotoi bolo supta competetion thaake............

NUCLEAR FAMILY: Chotto shundar poribar....ekhane biye kore ashaar por nutun bouti taar onek sapnoi puran korte paare............adjust shudhui husband ba soshur shashurir shonge.....se taar nijer sangsar nijer moton samlaate paare; sajate paare....bachchake nijer moton kore boro korte paare....

kintu Shob kaaj nijeke korte hoi…sharir kharap holeo rokkhe nei….ekakityo hoye othe ekmatro shongi………tai bodhhoi bole independence comes with a lot of responsibilities

Purba -Purush

Jhum (Suchismita Das)

Baishakhir 'Purba-Purush' thread ta dekhe kichu lekhar lobh samlate parlam na. Du-din dhorei kichu likhbo vabchi. kintu thik somoi hoe uthchena. sotti 1ta bepar holo nijeder purbo-purushder nie amader protteker monei bodhoi kichu koutuhol thake. amader purbo-purush kara chilen tara ki korten kivabe jibonjapon korten se bepare janbar icche ta bodhoi sokoler moddhei olpo bistor theke thake. sadharonoto amader thakuma didima othoba dadurai hon amader purbo-purushder somporke janbar setusorup. tader kach thekei jante pari amra amader purbo-purush der kotha. amio amar purbo-purushder somporke kichu kichu golpo amar thakumar thekei sunechi.
amar thakumar baba holen prokhyato sisu sahityik shri Hemendra Kumar Ray. bingso shotoker prothom dike tar rochito sisu sahityo jothesto aloron sristi korechilo. bolte gele tini prothom bangla sahitye detective golper suchona koren. tar rochito *Jayanta* *Manik* namok Goyenda choritro ajo manus ke porte utsahito kore. tini sudhu je goyenda kahinitei parodorshi chilen tai noi. tar rochonar moddhe onek adventurous ebong science fiction o roeche. tar rochito *"Jokher Dhon"* jothesto jonopriyota labh koreche. ekhono ei boiti chele meyera porte valobase. onar aro kichu mone rakhar moto boier moddhe *Mayakanon*, *Hotyar Hahakare*, *Derso Khokar Kando* ityadi bes ullekhjogya.


Thakumar kache golpo sunechi je onader barite kaji Najrul Islam, Jamini Roy, Uday Shankar provriti onek sonamdhonno manuser asa jawa chilo. jamini roy er onek akao dadur barite dekhechi. kolkata Bagbajare Hemendra Kumar Ray er bariti amar khubi pochonder chilo. bagbazar thik launch ghater kachei dadur 3 tola bari. 3 tolar baranda theke darie gangar buke launch er asa jawa dekhar ek opurbo sundor onubhuti ja bornona kora bes kothin. thakumar kache golpo sunechi oi tin tolar chade bose ganga dekhte dekhtei naki hemndra kumar ray tar lekhar kaj korten. sei barite gelei amar khubi romanchokor lagto ei vebe je eikhane bose ekjon sahityik tar onek sristi korechen.

Ebare asi amar nijer dadur(thakur da) kothai. amar dadu mane amar babar baba. dadur nam holo Deb Kumar Sen. amar daduke jodio ami chokhe dekhini tini amar jonmer agei mara gechen. thakumar kache dadur onek golpo sunechi. amar dadura thakten bortoman Jharkhand er Hajaribagh jelai. amar dadu chilen ekjon school sikkhok. amar dadu je sudhu schoole sikkhokotai korten ta noi. onek nishobdo biplobi kormo kander songeo dadu jukto chilen. jai prakash narain ke jail theke british der hath theke palate dadu porokkho vabe sahajjo korechilen. kivabe tini sahajjo korechilen tar golpo ami thakumar kache sunechilam. ami sei golpo ta bolchina. amar boro pisi *Maitreyi Chatterjee, The* *Statesman* songbadpotre sei golpoti likhechen ami sei link ta tomader sathe share korchi. somoi pele ektu pore dekhte paro.
http://www.thestatesman.net/page.arcview.php?date=2007-12-25&usrsess=...
amar vabte romancho lage je amar dhomonite samanno holeo ei sob purbo-purushder kichu rokto boye choleche. ami gorbito amar purbo-purushder jonne.